DOES WOMEN'S OPINION REALLY MATTERS?

So a lot of haters say that kpop is only liked by girls, and teenagers, men don't like it, or real men will never like it, so I have a few questions for those self-proclaimed sigma males who did the surveys and had the data of everything so women's opinions, likes, and dislikes don't matter to you? Teenagers' opinions, likes, and dislikes don't matter to you, right? Did you just fall from the sky in your dad's lap? Or your father just downloaded you? Or maybe you were just born as a 20-year-old, and never had teenage? 

The Beatles, one of the greatest musicians of the 20th century, who debuted in 1957 were first supported by women's only, One direction one of the greatest bands of the 21st century, debuted in 2011, I bet you have heard their songs, they were immensely famous among women's, and lastly, BTS, who are again immensely famous among women's, so should we conclude that the reality is that we don't need men's to make anything famous, According to Google there are 102 men's on 100 women in the world and even being less in numbers, women's proved three times that they don't care about men's opinion.

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All this might sound very pseudo-feminist but believe me, it's not, all the things I said above are facts, and there is nothing wrong with it, but I know that sounds rude. When it comes to feminism and women's rights I'm very liberal, and I don't think I need to prove it to someone, but tell me how will you feel when someone will make you feel bad every day only for liking something that's not even illegal? How will you feel when you used to think that your generation will be free from things like homophobia, and racism but you see that every day, at your school, and your college, how will you feel when you see that still, mainland Indians do casual racism towards northeast Indians?

Believe me or not, but this human life is too short to hate someone or to spread hatred, if you believe in god it's easy for you to understand, but even if you don't just ask your inner self that spreading hatred towards anyone makes you feel happy or it was only because you wanted to satisfy your ego?

Just tell me why someone who's making a song for mental health, happiness, and life problems is less important than someone who's only making a song on women's, boozing, partying, and gun culture. When someone makes a derogatory comment against women, in any way, in a song, in an interview, in a movie, or in literature, and you are supporting them, always remember that comment also goes for your mother, your sister, and all your female friends. 

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Again, life is too short to do men and women, just move on, if you are not okay with your grandfather's era's fashion, then how are you okay with his era's beliefs?

There was this boy in my college, who once in the middle of nowhere started saying weird things about kpop, I was normal cause I know that if someone who is well educated and still making these comments then there is no meaning in argumenting with them, but suddenly he started saying that how he loves South Indian movies, now let me remind you, bro, south Indian movies are still very much misogynistic, there are still many movies which promote and romanticizes the crimes against women's, for example very famous Pushpa the rise, very easily romanticized stalking, and no one among the media, and audience dared to question it, and on other hand, people were celebrating it, now think of the same situation for you sister, it is still okay for you?

Not only South Indian movies, but there also are many Bollywood movies doing the same, and on the other hand, when RM leader of BTS, once was accused of misogynistic lyrics around 2015, he went to women professors and let them review all the lyrics, now count back his age in 2015, it was 21, so when a 21-year-old boy can be accountable for what he was doing and can acknowledge these things why not a 40-year-old grown, well-experienced men can't do this? And after all these things, whom do you want your future daughter to follow?

This topic is very broad and I don't even think that I'm able to cover everything, maybe some of you are still thinking that this blog is a waste of time, and I'm just a random kpop obsessed girl, then I'm sorry no one can help you, and lastly, I just wanna leave last question for you all, that why fangirling is crazy and fanboying a sport is cool?

Thank you so much for reading it till now, it means alot 💕🌸.

- Written by :- Anshika 🌺